I agree. And for me, the support I got for quite a number of years was exactly what I needed at the time - I really couldn't have handled doing trauma work when I was drowning. After a while, though, I realized I was only seeing my therapist to, well, see HIM. And, I suspected that I was avoiding developing relationships outside of therapy because my needs for closeness (as close as a one-sided relationship can be) were being met in therapy.