I’m relatively new to therapy and am generally polite, courteous and considerate. Last week, to my surprise, I decided to no show to my scheduled session without calling. It totally caught me off guard because it’s just not my style to do something like that. We talked about it this week and my therapist was very nice about it (I’m assuming this happens not infrequently), and it turns out that in part, I may have been testing him. He implied that I may continue to test him. I’m just not sure what this means and I’d like to be prepared. Maybe I even want to get ideas . . . . . What are ways that you have tested your therapist and how have they responded?