The old me was very angry. I used to tell him that I was mad at him and hated him, once that his face irritated me when he watched me cry. He just accepted it- personally I would have preferred it if he had become nasty back, but he never has or will. And I used to play up the erotic transference. Full make up sometimes with a low cut top then tell him that I wanted him. xD He just normalized all of that instead of shaming me about it.