Dear MC,

Thanks for your reply. The "of course it's OK" made me feel better. But the whole "nontrivial" part concerns me slightly. You have to know I want to discuss this with you--was that you offering to do that? I mean, I assume, since you said I should discuss with your or T. But just wondering if that means you're open to a phone call, or would I have to discuss it all with H there? If the latter...any chance I wouldn't have to show him e-mail? And that maybe it could be a vaguer talk about transference rather than "love"?
--LT