I'm really trying, but my husband wanted to take them out to eat Saturday night, and we did. I did o.k., but it is not the same. She seems to be able to sweet talk him some, but I am sticking to my guns. She is very bright, and I thought college was nice for her; but not at our expense! Anyhow, I am doing the best I can. Love all the grandkids, but don't need this mess. Thanks!