I’m not sure if in my case it’s a called “testing”. I guess I have but only when my T has done something wrong or I have certain expectations due to circumstances. For example when my T double booked me I expected her to be more persistent in reaching out to me in order for her to correct the issue. Those were my expectations that I was hoping she would follow through with. That was my way of testing her wanting to continue to work on things. Im aware that I’m testing her at the time. Otherwise I don’t test her if there’s nothing really going on. I don’t set the stage.
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