T,
My H's T told him that he is being controlling and that they were going to work on that.

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I feel so defensive. I feel like you don't understand me. You tell me that I am born to be negative, that it's who I am. You KNOW how much this is an issue with me. Then I am angry at me for being angry at you. Who do I trust? You or me? Do I trust the feeling that you don't understand me as of late? Or not?

I feel like I don't belong anywhere, and that I just plain don't belong.