I don't think I test her purposely, but i think the way I am can be quite testing on her patience maybe. It has taken me a while to trust and open up. I think I needed to know she wasn't just gonna leave me if things got tough, we have both probably had some tears along the way. Maybe a bit of push and pull from me, and by staying around and being validating abd supporting in everyway makes me think she's in a way passed the trust test!