Its interesting to see different view on this. Its true, if it ibitiates a whole new problem that keeps one from working thru the actual issue, then it might be better to end the relationship and see if another T is a better fit. The end will hurt, but we'll get over it (I ince got attached to my rehab therapist, and eventually I had to go home).

In my case, it helps me in a way to really let go in therapy. I am so closed off, and even though it hurta aomwtimes feeling so attached and dependent, its what really makes me share my deepest thoughts and fears. I could not do that with someone who was just professional because I qouldnt establish the trust needed (I do not trust people).

So, I guess everyone has to decide if transference is okay in the situation or not and act accordingly.