Thanks all.

But really, it was just me overreacting again. She has plenty of stressors to deal with and I don't always take that into consideration. Still, she is very self-centered at times, but overall tries to be supportive.

To add to it, I think things might be worse for me right now as I'm tapering off effexor.

I dunno, I just don't know. I'll talk with T about it next week, if I remember.