My dad & my X-H were both that way. My H more than my dad.

My H would say something totally NOT funny & he would laugh at what he said while I stood there in a NOT FUNNY mode.

Honestly both were on the Spectrum (ASD). Dont know if that in common was why they were both like that or not.

It was especially IRRITATING when H thought his sarcastic put down humor toward me was funny esprcially when it was totally inappropriate