Sunny I know the whole contract thing scares me. He's never ever mentioned one its just that once my MMPI results came back and I did tons of research on APD and Borderline, over and over I found that most of the discussions centered around setting limits from the beginning and that usually contracts work best.
He knows how I feel about this I did tell him once a female T I saw only once handed me one the first day I saw her.
When I left, it hit the ground in many pieces. My husband thinks I shouldn't obsess over this and that it will be fine.
The second session was my phone call and he didn't realize it was a second session he said. When I said I was seeing him again the next day and we could talk about the results, that is when I learned he didn't know I needed more time last week.
I'll ask him more directly tomorrow. I really hope this session goes well. I want to know how we can move forward. As for the fax, I'm assuming that he'll say something...who knows. I'm usually wrong about these things.
I did analyze my fax and saw some important insights about me and I plan to talk about that a little bit. I need a safer environment though for when therapy gets tough. For me that is extra sessions but that may not be what he thinks ya know?
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