Mine also waits for me to start talking
For me, it's really difficult part of the session (and also often frustrating). It's strange to talk to someone who didn't ask about anything... When someone asks I feel they are more interested how I'm doing.

I told my T about this, but it hasn't changed anything.
She said that usually something I said first seems to be the most important thing for me. I'm not sure if I agree... I think I usually say the most important things rather at the end of the session