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Old Dec 09, 2017, 12:23 AM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch View Post
Is it worth your own sanity to even continue this friendship? For her to text you that at this particular point is bad taste.
True, what hurts so much, is I can't think of even sending a text like that to someone, who they consciously knew something awful just happened to them. I never did anything to her with any bad intentions whatsoever. Quite the opposite, where I've done so much for her. I feel hurt that I have poured out my heart and soul to this friend, I have done a lot of good deeds for her, and then I get this kind of treatment. I don't have much support from family either, so I feel desperate. It's sad I have history with her, but I feel betrayed.

I don't know think she is worth jeopardizing my mental health at this point.
Probably not. I am sick of doing a lot for her to put up with mistreatment and just listen to her play victim all the time. She flips between being supportive to me being on her sh** list, and it switches with no rhyme or reason. I'm usually not in the "bad" category....but everyone else in her life is: her dad, her boss, she's had problems at almost every job she's ever had with people. It's also kind of interesting how just the night before I said that I found something cute for her daughter that I would like her to have for Christmas, and I am met with a text the next day that she "doesn't want to bother me." That's literally what happened. I feel I need to take my power back somehow.