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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch
Is it worth your own sanity to even continue this friendship? For her to text you that at this particular point is bad taste.
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True, what hurts so much, is I can't think of even sending a text like that to someone, who they consciously knew something awful just happened to them. I never did anything to her with any bad intentions whatsoever. Quite the opposite, where I've done so much for her. I feel hurt that I have poured out my heart and soul to this friend, I have done a lot of good deeds for her, and then I get this kind of treatment. I don't have much support from family either, so I feel desperate. It's sad I have history with her, but I feel betrayed.
I don't know think she is worth jeopardizing my mental health at this point.
Probably not. I am sick of doing a lot for her to put up with mistreatment and just listen to her play victim all the time. She flips between being supportive to me being on her sh** list, and it switches with no rhyme or reason. I'm usually not in the "bad" category....but everyone else in her life is: her dad, her boss, she's had problems at almost every job she's ever had with people. It's also kind of interesting how just the night before I said that I found something cute for her daughter that I would like her to have for Christmas, and I am met with a text the next day that she "doesn't want to bother me." That's literally what happened. I feel I need to take my power back somehow.