LT, is iit must confusing to have these feelings for MC?. Does your H feel sad about it or something else? I have some feelings like that for my T, until I stop and think about it playing out in real life and how I wouldn't even notice him at a party or gathering. Is it the process of confiding in them, that our love responds to but theirs doesnt bc they are not confiding in us? I am so confused about the role of emotion between a T and a client. I know in my clear mind my boyfriend is a much better fit, just as caring and intelligent, but in my heart I am pulled to this very traitor-like adoration for my T and think about him too much and his voice is impactful in my life beyond what seems normal. The fact of it- clients pining for T's, and T's having 20 or 30 people feeling that way about them. . . it is hard for me to stay with it.