At different times, I've said I have no idea what to ask because I'm not trained in providing therapy, so what kinds of things did she offer? A couple of times, I just asked her if she could be nicer to me, which seemed to irritate her. I think it's a hard question to answer--first to know what I want and then to guess at if it's something a therapist does. I kind of wish they had a menu to pick from to get the ball rolling.