Im confused because after you are divorced, usually legal battles over kids have nothing to do with who the the divorced people are seeing socially unless something is brought up accusing the person they are sering of doing something hsrmful to the kids. I know accusation lies are normal in some cases as my daughters BF'S ex is falsy accusing the ex of abusing tje kids.

At times, Divorce is nasty even after its over when kids atr involved

I apologize if you wrote the explanation & I didnt grasp it