Thanks for your persepctive and plan of approach ruh roh. I did consider calling after no response to the second email. The reason that I did not call was that I would certainly reach her voice mail and I saw that, perhaps incorrectly, as amounting to simply leaving the same message a third time. I was also concerned about my ability to speak in a self-controlled manner (not come across as more calm, or more upset, than I truly felt) and say precisely what I wanted to say in real time.