Hi Bethy,
And, to add to what others have said, sometimes it takes more than one step to get to "happy."

So, I would add "what steps do I need to take" and then, "what can I do today" etc., and add a timeline if possible. It has to be realistic though...

Looking inside is difficult to me. I guess if I know my own personal values/goals, I know what makes me happy. "Happy" is kinda a word like "normal." Dontcha think??
Love,
Okie