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Originally Posted by riptide53
Been there, it doesn't change;stay on good terms but don't give yourself away
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Oh I agree. Yeah Indon’t plan on getting close to her. Don’t want to and she doesn’t allow it anyway. Yeah I can’t fully trust her. I just want to be on good terms that’s all. Basically no more than acquaintances or casual friend. I don’t confide in her and the real test would come when I am with her in a group setting. I was in a group setting a few months back when I saw her and she was with coworkers. She treated me fine but I don’t think that counts since she is not actually friends with them. The real test would be to see how she is with other friends around. Four years ago, that is how it was. She was nice to me one on one, even invited me to do things with her and even invited me over to dinner at her house a few times and to church, but if we were in a group setting with other friends, I was nothing. That is why I am very careful now. But yeah, at least I am on good terms.