Nope - today we just sat in silence, til I needed to cook - at which point a bickering fest broke out while I was about to serve bc he said he wanted to add some pickles n ham to the salad - so I stopped n told him go ahead - he said no I will just add it to mine its ok - I said no it sounds good go ahead n just add it to all - he said no I told you I will just add it to mine - I said whatever n dished up mine, then he says "well wait - do you want pickles n ham too?" I said I just said to add it to all but you said no to dish up mine so I did that , just make yours now .. Then I get half way done eating it n he asks me the same thing...

So we been quiet again ever since

As far as the frustration thing - normally I keep my frustrations to myself, but he verbally vents his almost all the time - on rare occasion I do as well, this was one, since we have been together 13 yrs (except 2nd we were separated) I feel I have that right. Also him interrupting me is aggravating bc he literally yells at me the moment I do it to him - yet he its ok for him to consistently cut me off. I do make sure to listen to him though I do not always have the responses he likes, which sometimes gets the complaint "you aren't listening"