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Originally Posted by Rayne_
I just wanted to mention that there might be value in the new T discovering you and making her own conclusions about you rather than be biased by your Ts views. Sometimes starting with a blank canvas can be useful.
An uninfluenced perspective might be useful, especially since you and your T were stuck. Think about it.
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Yes, this is a good point. I still don't know if I will see a new T but if I do I probably won't get my file transferred now that you have mentioned this. I think my relationship with my last T had simply run it's course. I also think that towards then end the maternal transference was causing me to repeat some unhelpful patterns that were hard for either of us to break out of. If I see a new T I am going to try a male and see how that could offer a different dynamic.