So recently my girlfriend of a year came out and said I’m too clingy. I was a little put off by this because we’ve been together for a year now and this is something that should’ve came up months ago. Anyways she says that I’m always wanting a kiss or too be intimate with her. In my mind I don’t see myself as clingy at all. Is it clingy to want a kiss a few times a day? Or be intimate more than once or twice a month? These things are very important to me and just don’t seem to be as important to her.

Recently we had a “talk” and lately I told her that I’ve had my doubts about our relationship because of this problem. She said she understood and has just been to busy with school, family, money, etc... but in my mind should I always be put at the least priority?

I really need some advice on my situation. I feel like if I can’t reach a solution soon that I’m going to end up splitting up with her. Which I don’t want because I still love her.