I know what my issues with sc are. When we got together we both had sc. I only had male friends on mine aside from maybe 2 girls. She had both and a majority of her male friends were guys she had sex with or flirted with. I was not fond of that and she said they're just friends now ect. So I did the same and added female friends with similar backgrounds and she didn't like that and wanted to bargain then and say ok I see how you feel. If I'm insecure it was because she made me that way instead of being mutually respectful and just having girls as she wanted me to just have males on my sc.