Imho I really think you need to stop & take some serious stock of where you are in your life. Before other things happen!!!
The first of many red flags I see is “he won’t let me work in a bar...”
WTF!
He spends all his time drinking & smoking?? How’s that going to improve with a baby in the house? Does he wanto have a baby with you?
(& really a guy from your dreams isn’t real...it is a dream)

You don’t have any friends bec HE gets mad?? Again WTF!

And he treats you like a child. Is this solely bec of your age or is this guy a daddy or father figure for you?
Yeah I can definitely see why you’re depressed. I’m not trying to be ugly here, but a baby is really a lifetime commitment. Are you ready for that? Is he?

I agree with the above post. Yes you should be worried about your own mental state & if you wanto bring a baby into your world.
Just my honest opinion.
Good luck!