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Old Dec 10, 2017, 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Feeling_Hopeless74 View Post
Well this is the second time on that same issue. Idk if what I wrote in my original post was hard to understand but I'll explain again.

When we first had sc i did not want her talking to her "gay" friend. She said she would delete him and not talk to him anymore but only after I deleted females from mine. We both did that. About a month later I found put she added him back without telling me and had been sc him again. Later on after that we had mutual agreed to just delete sc all together because of the problems it causes. We've gone several months without it. Now, a couple nights ago I found out that not only did she have the app again without even talking to me about it, she also had that guy I didn't want her to talk to. Now, had I opened it and seen she only had family members on it like she originally had mentioned I may not have been as mad or hurt but I feel like I've just been played for a idiot this whole time....
I see... and sorry if you had to explain this again!

So she has been deceitful twice and wanted to still SC with this guy. Since he's gay, there really is not much of a threat, but you said you think he is bi. I would be concerned about the deceit. There is something going on here with this other guy somehow. I don't know if it's purely innocent, but clearly she wants a relationship of sorts with him beyond just Facebook pics. That does seem odd to me, and also unfair to you since you deleted all females and stopped using it at her request. It was a mutual agreement, and she chose to do the opposite.

I don't know what the answer here is. I would have a hard time trusting her -- trust is the foundation of a good, solid relationship. If you can't trust her, then what do you have? Not much I'm afraid. :/ If she can't seem to stop the Sc with this guy, what is up with that? It's suspect.