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Originally Posted by emptynightmare
why do you doubt that the guy is gay?
you probably know there is private messaging on other social media platforms. why focus on snapchat?
it's fine to have trust issues, but you seem to be trying futilely to resolve them by controlling your gf. no one owes you the truth. would you rather she stayed faithful to you out of force, or for you to discover her true nature by letting her do as she wants? if she has no freedom to do as she wishes, you will never know if she actually wants you sincerely. Maybe there is another way to ease your worry.
do you want the truth?
i assume you are keeping this conversation a secret from her.
ps--i hope my tone wasn't harsh, i've been drinking a lot of coffee lately and had no sleep. my opinions are totally subjective.
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I agree with you, I can't force her to be honest with me but this was a mutual agreement to not have sc. The same thing when we agreed to not talk to the opposite sex on sc, maybe we set ourselves up for failure right there? Idk.
Why I think this guy is bisexual and not gay - he goes out with her sisters to clubs all the time and she let slip one time that he has also made out with them while drunk... I know alcohol can cause you to do dumb things but i would never make out with one of my guys while we were out drinking (this was years ago) 2. Recently my gf told me that this guy confessed one night that he wanted to be with her sister (one of the ones he made out with) might have been drunk then too but it doesn't make a difference to me.
Now my gf has gone out with this guy multiple times too before we dated and she says nothing has ever happened he's just her best friend from kids. It's hard for me to not expect he has more feelings towards my gf than just to be friends. And, it's hard for me to just let her go out and drink with him too as she would like to do...now mind you they live 3 hours apart but she visits home every few months and I have no idea what goes on