Sounds rough. I understand having digestive problems and trying to eat healthy. I just recently found out that I have T2D and have HAD to start eating healthy. Do you have a medical doctor and if so, have you talked with them about health based food that will help you to gain the amount of weight that you would like to be at? Also, if you really do feel that this parent is being pushy, you can try telling them that you know that they mean well but, that they need to back off because it's really stressing you out. I'm going through some heavy stress myself in part because of not being able to eat whatever I want just any ol' time so, I can sympathize with your frustration. You need to make it clear to them just how stressful all of this is for you and that if they don't let up that it can only get worse as far as you're concerned. pegasus offers good advice too. You may just need to get out on your own or get a room mate who wont ride you about your health. Good luck.