I still have these feelings of transference, and I believe it has everything to with my past and who I am as a person. I like what ididitmyway has to say about it, though. I would have thought that talking about it with your T could help reduce it.

In my case, as soon as I talked about it, put it on the table, it got better. I still have feelings, but they are manageable. I don't know why. They get stronger a day or two before an appointment, and vanish after I leave, until the next time.

I think working on it on your own would be a good idea. And possibly also spacing your appointments. Mine are every other week.