I completely understand how you feel. This happen all the time. I had my sister friend ex husband had told me that I wasn't welcome here. Or my sister said her friend want me over for dinner. he had told me I don't want you eating. I am the same boat if I could drive I would have just excuse my self and had left, now I have my sister friend daughter who tell me that we always causing problem whenever we come over yet we don't do anything. they can't name five things when I can name ten things they do.