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Old Dec 10, 2017, 06:49 PM
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Something I don't want to talk about triggered this, but I'm thinking about how I've never belonged in a group, how all through school I was never once invited to a birthday party, sleepover or anything like that. Even now I don't ever get invited to anything. Sometimes I feel stronger because of it...like I don't need anyone. Other times it just hurts. Maybe I should spend more time here and less time on Facebook.
Hang on!
Try doing something for yourself whatever that maybe. Try a distraction whether that is a TV show, watching your favorite DVD (which is what I do) or remembering a favorite childhood cartoon ( I go this route which helps). It is painful when your not included or invited. I know. Being left out is horrible.
Find some way to cope. Try finding a therapist. I've found that just relying on this shouldn't be the only coping mechanism.
I feel your pain. Ride it out, it will pass.
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