Mixed feelings. I think I can see why the 16 y.o was hurt, disappointed. OTOH his parents gave him a new car for his graduation. Figure his mom&dad is pretty well off. I mean a new vs used car. I too think its cutting off his nose to spite his face in refusing the car. I might be able to see if its a car model he didn't like.
As for me I don't drive so I felt disturbed by your scenario. OTOH I'll never get any parking or moving violations.