Dear No. 3,

I’m trying to mourn the fact that we finally had closure in June, then your ignoring my request that you not communicate with me for fear of upsetting that closure, then once you did communicate and upset that closure, not offering any kind of repair when asked until a third party got involved months later, has now turned the good ending I needed into a painful, messy one.

To just feel sad about it instead of getting angry at you or melting down.

It’s not going super-well.

ATAT