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Old Dec 10, 2017, 11:23 PM
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I have no interest in sex outside of masturbating, although I do enjoy the male anatomy. As I've said in another thread, I'm afraid of sex, it's not pleasurable, and I feel obligated to have sex if I were to be in a relationship just to keep the other half happy. I am very doubtful the other half could make me happy sexually. How could I be in a relationship with someone if I don't want sex? And what if I want to have sex at one point, aka, change my mind? How do I discuss this topic in a romantic relationship? It feels silly just to say "I'm only comfortable giving oral, not receiving, not intercourse, and maybe/maybe not ****?" It seems ridiculous to say that, so I might as well just say, "No sex, because I'm just not into sex"....but how do I even say that? Guys won't stay with me if they know I don't want sex, and what if a guy says he'll wait, and I'll be with him knowing he's waitingx?

I'm so confused. Should I be even thinking these thoughts at all?