My T doesnt even second guess his boundaries, so neither do I. I would never consider, say ,calling him over the weekend. I think he would be like listen you either need to be an in patient in a hospital or you need to deal, bc this is my private life time. He is not that guy. He gives an amazing session. He has never answered his phone, looked out the window, or been less than attentive. He never makes schedule mistakes, never runs late- he is bright, insightful, and caring- for fifty minutes. He will read an email, and maybe say something about it briefly or maybe not. I a not sure how I feel about it. It seems disrespectful in a way bc I give so much of my free time to my job, and amp expected too. Even my dogs' vet does more checking in and caring lol . It is intense attention in session and intense boundaries the rest of the time.