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Old Jan 15, 2008, 10:40 PM
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Hey mckell13:
Do you think that your husband thinks you talk about him?
Does he feel that you talk to the therapist, but not to him?
He may be feeling "left" out, sort of? My husband knows I have to go, but he doesn't make me tell him anything. I tell him how it went, but not anything crucial. Most of us take advantage of therapy and the safe atmosphere it provides so that we can let out some of our most inner thoughts that we might not tell anyone else. You don't have to explain anything like you do with husbands.
I go for me as well.............but that's all. You can't go to therapy for anyone else but yourself. He needs to understand that. He can't serve all your needs.....no one can do that. I don't care how much you love someone. To put that kind of responsibility on them isn't fair to you or him.
Just speculating on how he might feel? Maybe he's a bit jealous????
At any rate.............good luck.