I was thinking something along the lines of introject as well. There have been a few in my system over the years who would go out of their way to make others in the system miserable (kinda an understatement there, but y'know...) in one way or another. Some turned out to be protector types just doing what it is they felt they needed to do, some I still have no clue what their deal is. Thankfully this is not a problem at the moment for me.

I'm sorry you had to go through that and that for whatever reason it still lives on and plays out in hurtful ways in the present. You deserved better as a child and better in the here and now as an adult as well.

-Avery