I really don't expect my T to go above and beyond. If ahe did that with every client, ahe coukdnt have a life of her own.
So, I know she gives a little more in sessions than I dared to dream, for example, staying longer or chatting about other stuff after the session. I love that, and I deeply appreciate it. However, I do not contact her outside our sessions. I just don't even dare to ask that much of anyone. I think just because they chise thwir job, it doesn't mean they ahould be there for us clients any time we want it. I myself keep job and privacy separated clearly, and I think my T can do the same even tho I'm totally attached and would spend a whole week with her.