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Old Dec 11, 2017, 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted by TheSadGirl View Post
I've thought a bit about this wondering what response I should give. First of all do I believe you can have a relationship without sex? Absolutely. I have a friend who is a quadriplegic and he's been married for years. They love each other very much even though he is unable to have sex.

Second I think you just need to be open and honest with your future partner. It is not necessarily a deal breaker. I believe the right person will love you for you.

Third you have no way of predicting what the future will bring. Maybe your next partner is the one who changes everything for you. Maybe you experiment in bed and find things that drive you both wild. There are so many variables.

You can't change who you are to please other people. Just be yourself.
This really spoke to me, because I don't know what the future will bring. Maybe truly loving someone brings that sense of ease that I don't get with people who don't love me. Maybe love truly is a game changer. I just don't know.
Thanks for this!
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