I'm confused. I thought you transitioned to female from male?

And I do think your hangups with dating etc. could be tied to your new identity based on your past as a man, who was previously married to the wrong woman.

Now that you have transitioned to being a woman, you are still attracted to women, so the challenge for you is to find a woman who will accept who you are now, as well as who you were then, and not judge you for your choice to change genders.

I feel like it's a common roadblock many transgendered people come up against, asking themselves, "How do you reconcile your past with your new identity?"