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Originally Posted by RaineD
T asks a question.
Me: I don't know.
T: That doesn't help us.
Me: I know.
**We sit there and stare at each other.**
T: Is this helpful?
Me: I don't know.
T: Is this helping you move towards your goal?
Me: I don't even know what my goals are anymore.
T: Can we explore that?
Me: Sure.
**I proceed to resist the discussion.**
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That sounds very familiar to me. Although my T is smart enough not to say things like "that doesn't help us" etc because if he would say such things using negative expressions then I would have succeeded in luring him into my trap where he must admit that he is useless and has no idea how to help me.