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Originally Posted by prefabsprout
Eve I really don't know that it will be good for you to confront him again? He has shown he is not mature enough to give you closure, he has come back in the past with more trouble for you.
How about you find safer ways of expressing your pain? Writing it down, or posting here. I am sorry you had that experience with the car, these things can be shocking and take some time to get over. You are safe, remember that, and he can't hurt you now either.
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thanks Sprout! I guess I feel I haven't FULLY confronted him about everything, including the emotional cheating. I want to.... I want to just lay it all out for him and call him out in every little thing. I feel it's the one way I can finally get closure and peace..... I don't like that he's been able to get away with all of it, without a true, full on confrontation from me.
I have done what I can, but I still don't have full closure. I've written poems on here, I've posted about it, I talk in therapy about it, But it still haunts me. He should know that I KNOW how much he has lied...
But I will think about what you've said...
and thank you re: the car accident. At least I wasn't hurt.