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Originally Posted by RACEKA
Has anyone had to go through the death of an abusive parent?
I just wanted to hear how you felt when they died. Did you grieve? Did you celebrate? How do you feel now?
I did the empty chair technique with my T last night with my abusive mom. She died in 2000. I did ok until I had to tell her it was time to go away. I got very emotional at that point and I'm trying to figure out why. My T wants me to journal about it this week.
I was just wondering if anyone has gone through anything like this.
Thanks for your support.
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I felt relieve when my mom pass away. But then I started feeling bad really bad because she had passed away. I don't celebrate Christmas anymore because she had died the day before Christmas Eve. I want to repair my relationship with her. A week before she had died I had stood up to my mom for the first time and told her she had no right to hurt me mentally and physically or had the right to isolate me from other. She had no right to control my life all because she want me to take care of her. I lost my job because of what she had done. Have you tried meditating? It all sound like great tools to use.