Yes, to some extent. She is awesome at trying to understand what I am dealing with but I fear her patience may not be enough for the duration.

I think I am looking for people’s “ah-ha” moments/experiences because I don’t want to end a 22 year relationship 18 year long marriage and then find out “oops, just kidding I’m not really gay or bi” you know? I can say that there is a good chance that I would identify with being either.