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Originally Posted by QuietMind
T often wants me to be assertive with my parents and brother even though they often react with anger or guilt trips.
Keep in mind that your anger is valid even if your H will only react dismissively, hurtfully or cruelly.
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When I do show emotion in my voice if I am talking to him about something that frustrates me or makes me angry, he takes great offense to it and accuses me of hollering or "chewing his ### out" which I don't do. He just turns it back onto me. So it really isn't worth it if it gets redirected at me.
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