Sorry about your accident.

I see no point in confronting him. You focus too much on things he said (and in general on things people say). Just because people say things it doesn’t mean they mean it or that they are true. Just because you’ll confront him asking why he said you are this or that it doesn’t mean all of a sudden you’ll have closure. You have no control over what others do and say. You can only control yourself.

He is a loser and you confronting him not going to change that. In fact it might stroke his ego, he’d think you are still not over him as you can’t move on.

The best closure is to turn a new page and live a better life and choose better boyfriends. Confronting him will accomplish nothing. He knows he is *****. It’s not like it would be a major revelation to him. He is probably telling his sob stories to other vulnerable women so he can exploit them. Don’t waste your time