I haven't noticed yet with my T, but I had that kind of thing with friends. They give me more attention/they are my friends/anything attachment based at all meant I would I would have more thoughts, have more problems with SH, would get more extreme in every way.

With T it hasn't happpend. Not sure whether that is due to the kind of attachment. But I assume it's due to the kind of boundaries that he ensures there are. But I think it could happen even with proper boundaries, I'm just not sure how.