Hi,
You'll know when it's time to exercise, don't let your partner
bully you. Tell him to knock it off! Set some boundaries with him.
One problem I have is a whole lot of people have a warped view on what is
a healthy body weight. Not everyone is meant to look thin.
I don't know if he looks at those stupid magazines or what his problem is but he needs to be in your corner if not perhaps you might want to rethink the relationship. There is no excuse for his cruel remarks. And he is being cruel.
At some point in everyone's life weight will be an issue doesn't matter if it's a man or woman.
Me? I was skinny for many years until I hit the ripe old age of 30 then well the weight.
I wish you well.