"Do you mean with other people or yourself?"

Honestly, both.

Before I really worked through some of my trauma, suicidal thoughts and self-harm were a frequent thought for me (not always action, but frequent thought), and I also have a tendency to feel more dependent on my therapist, which stemmed from an attachment issue (also worse before I worked through my trauma).

In thinking through the people that I work with, those that seem to have some sort of attachment issue seem to also have struggles with self-harm and/or suicidal thoughts. I wonder if it is because they both correlate with trauma of some kind? Just a thought.