Although I am trying, I am truly not in a holiday mood. I'd rather skip the holidays, in truth. Luckily, my family keeps things simple -- no gifts and we take the money we would have spent and make a family donation to a charity.
Holidays are reminders of the many now "missing," those no longer with us. I try to be grateful for those still Present.
Socially, many tell me I don't visit like I used to -- I am too quiet. I have a lot of incessant "talkers" around me and it's difficult to get a (thoughtful) word in edgewise. If I want to be nonsensical, there's plenty of room for that.
I am always relieved when the holidays are over.
Great topic, by the way.

WC